Well, I just got off a chat with Fox at Crutchfield. After a short discussion, he recommended a Kenwood, KMM-BT332U
https://www.crutchfield.com/p_113KMBT332/Kenwood-KMM-BT332U.html?tp=5684
I'm not really looking at any major upgrades except maybe a small sub sometime in the future????? It looks like it will serve my needs. This is helping greatly with my decision making. The only rub is the installation kit does not have the red dash piece that I need. Those are available elsewhere so not a big deal. The adapter plug would be nice to have but I've wired stuff like this before and is not that big of a deal. Just a little time involved. And breathing solder fumes!! haha
Ken