It's hard 2 no hard to read wall of text take it 2 a shop four proper diag keep in mind its gonna cost u $.
Or better yet, slow down, use proper English, no abbreviations or substituting numbers for words, proper spelling via a spell checker, and punctuation. Theres a place for text-ese, but this isn't it.
Listing the year, make, model, and engine size would be a huge help too. Actual symptoms, pertinent info like temp, warning lights, any and all tests you've perfromed...
Lastly, calling it a "car" is so nondescript theres little way to help, considering this is a "truck" forum. Be aware we can't see it over the internets to even try to even suggest a direction to begin diagnosis.
Considering you're a "I joined today, and don't understand forum standards", I hope you'll actually respond with better info.
Help us help you.